SEPARATE CHURCH AND STATE.
YOU be responsible for YOUR own choices--stop being lazy just letting others do the thinking for you.
SMART PEOPLE make SMART CHOICES for their lives! If you cannot raise them--feed them; love them; send them to school; give them a home; and help them become good contributors to society, for crying out loud!!!, don't have them.
Someone wise once made a comment (and I think it's a fantastic idea), "If we need to get a license to drive; we should also get a license to have kids." That made me think, wow--what would the world be like then?